The first conflict was whom do we tell. I thought nobody for three months. This is old school. Laura pointed out that those who you would come to for support in a miscarriage should know right away. I saw the error of my ways and told my dad and brother Sept. 2nd. because I was with them for our grandmother’s funeral. We are telling Laura’s parents in New York City in person the weekend of Sept. 10 & 11 along with my mother via Skype. I immediately told my best friend over time, but he is far away from my current social circle. Laura told her best friend right away, but not parents. But she did tell an entire wedding party of old college friends while she was at a wedding 3,000 miles away. Facebook might happen at 3 months.